You're a woman, and you
want to meet a man; tired of the "club" scene, or never
liked it in the first place. You never meet any single,
desirable men in your "real" life. So, here you
are on the internet! What next? How to meet a man who
is not a loser, not a psycho, and not a player. Well, we
have some tips. You
can read about the features at a couple of the sites available by
clicking here. They have these "super
search" features available that you can use to sort out the
hundreds of men by age, location, education, and so forth.
You get results that look like the lists on the sides. You
can click on the pictures to get more information about the
guy. Try "Red3600" on the left, 2nd from the top,
for an example. Now on to some tips:
Party12334
Friendship and attraction--are these key for you?
The
first thing you need to realize is that INFORMATION is your
best tool. The more you know about a man before
you meet him, the less likely you are to get a
loser.
But this is the internet.
How do you really KNOW that a person is who he says he
is? A few ways. When it comes to information,
MORE is better. For example, look at the pictures on
the side columns. When you do a
"search" on a dating site, this is typical as to
the results you get. Some look good, some look
bad. But don't judge a book by its cover. You
can get more information.
Take
"red3600" for example (2nd from the top, on the
left -- yeah the guy with the hat). You can click on his
picture and and get more details about him -- go ahead, give
it a try (or
click here). Don't forget to come back here and
finish reading. While you're there, check out the personality
responses.
ICQ11231
Girls under 30, I'm searching for the real deal.
IndyCamr
Single / Italian From Philly ISO S/DWF @-->---
So, a suggestion
would be that anytime you "meet" a man on one of these
sites, and he hasn't filled out these responses -- ask him to do
it.
Now, these sites
have lots of other features that you can use to get to know a man
before you decide to meet him in person. They have e-mail,
chat, e-cards, free home pages, etc. Use these.
Before
you meet "in person"
Okay,
so you think you've e-met your knight in shining armor? So,
now you want to meet in person, of course. Before you do
that you need to get some more information. Don't put the
guy on the spot, but work all this stuff in naturally, from the
very beginning. As you get to know him, ask him to send you
more photos; ask him for his phone number -- especially his home
phone and talk to him on the phone. Call the number
different times of the day -- see who answers. Ask him
for his address (tell him you want to send a REAL
picture). Suggestion: don't have
"cyber-sex" or phone-sex with a man you may want to meet
in person. If you do, and then you meet him, the guy is
going to be in a HUGE hurry to take the fantasy into reality; you
may not want to go that fast.
At
any rate, when you finally DO meet, meet somewhere in
public. Make it for something short -- a cup of coffee, a
quick lunch during the work day (tell him you only get 1 hour for
lunch -- meet somewhere 15 minutes from your job -- you only can
stay for 1/2 hour). That way, if you don't like the guy, you
have an excuse to get out right away. If they guy likes you,
he will want to see you again. If he doesn't, he will not
call you anymore; he might even change his screen name.
But
warning: if a man DOES NOT LIKE YOU, and NEVER WANTS TO SEE
YOU AGAIN, he might still want to try to get you to have sex with
him. Do you remember the song: "If you can't be
with the one you love, honey -- love the one you're
with." ??? Well, lots of men think that
way. So, if you allow for lots of time, and the man is not
repulsed by you, but doesn't really like you that much, he may
still try to seduce you. The point is, you should try
to make the first meeting short, and then if you hear from the guy
again, you know he might be interested. If he blows you off
-- well, you didn't waste too much time.
So,
now that you know a little bit about this stuff, you should check
out the services available:
"red3600" I
know what I want, do you?
hello.... I like the out doors life like
camping, fishing, boating, hiking. I like going to the beach
at night looking up at the stares. I love going to the
springs for a nice swim. I'm currently going to
college to finish up my degree. I love to cook and I like
taking my Harley out on the weekends. I also like
photography. I like animals very much. I go jogging twice a
week would like to do more but I work days and school at
night.
The
cigar in my pic? I was just playing around -- I do not
smoke. I have been divorced for three years now . I have
no kids well I do have a dog...I'm 5'10"and 168 lbs.
blue eyes. Have a nice day!!!!
Ideal Person - LOOKING FOR
A GOOD WOMAN WHO IS HONEST AND LIKES TO HAVE A GOOD TIME NOT
AT THE BARS.... Someone who I can give a nice hug too lots
of hugs.. IS SHE OUT THERE???
What
factors are most important to you when looking for someone?
Age
How do you bounce back from a bad day?
Owning my own business and have a nice relationship with
someone
Work & Living Environment Questions for red3600
What best describes the pace of your life?
Go with the flow
How much time does your job take up in your life?
I work full-time
What is your annual income? I'm not telling
What best describes your dining habits? Sometimes I swing through a fast food joint, but
I usually cook
How often are you online?
I'm on several hours a day
How big is your family?
I've got one of each.
What type of family do you come from We're very close.
What kind of place do you live in? House
What's your main mode of transportation?
Truck
How big of role does religion play in your life?
Unknown
Do you have any pets? Dogs
When it comes to career, family and life in general, how do
you feel?
Happy
