How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You
by Leil Lowndes; Contemporary Books, 1996.
Rating: Five out of Five hearts.

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Holy Man! This book is great! As the book says: “[This book] offers 85 techniques based on scientific studies into the nature of romantic love.”
And those are the keys: techniques and scientific studies.
The chapter that outlines the steps to intimacy, is worth the price of the whole book!!! This tells you exactly, based on scientific studies, what has to happen if you are going to meet someone and get them to go out with you! It is NO JOKE. But there is tons more great stuff here too!

As I read this, from a man's point of view, remembering back on times I had been successful in meeting a woman, and getting a date with her, I realized it was the truth!   Of course, these steps are also necessary from the woman's point of view.
The short version of the steps:
Once you do the stuff in the previous chapter you will be close to the woman you want to meet. Then these things have to happen, or you will go home without ever making a true "connection":
1. Non verbal signal. Something that lets you each know you’re interested.
2. Talk. You or the other person has to say something; even “Hi” can work.
3. Turning. The person who didn’t talk, has to turn toward the talker. A turn of the head is good; a whole body turn is better. No turn at all means it’s not going to happen.
4. Touching. Keep up the chat, the turning, etc., and you will hopefully soon be touching each other. A small squeeze on the arm?? A pat on the shoulder??? Who knows, but if it doesn’t happen, and it isn’t mutual, you are soon headed back down that lonely street, back to heart break hotel.
5. Synchronization. You two will be doing stuff at the same time. This sounds small?? This is a BIG DEAL.
Okay, this is GREAT STUFF! Buy the book, read the book, meet someone. No kidding.
Reviewed by Ross Josephs.